• Reminder 

    Get out of your head.Close all your gadgets, all your screens if you can, and get up and go talk to someone.Be vulnerable. Be kind. Lend a helping hand. Be a listener. It can be enough to listen intently to what someone wants to say.Because at the end of the day, as Carl Sagan once said, all we…

  • My Problem with ChatGPT

    I’ve been noticing people use ChatGPT to seek interpersonal relationship advice. The same people have suggested that I use it when I’ve asked them for advice on a conflicting interpersonal situation. I’m not sure how I feel about that. I have used ChatGPT numerous times myself for interpersonal relationship advice. However, I’ve come to notice a…

  • My Dopamine Detox

    I’ve been on a “dopamine detox” for over 6 months now and I feel great. And I guess by “dopamine” I’m referring to the easy/fast dopamine hits. I’ve deleted Tiktok, Instagram, and Snapchat from my phone. I have decided to use my phone as a ‘means to an end’, not for leisure or empty distractions….

  • A blog

    Why I decided to start a blog: Life is too short to not be seen or heard.  I hope that by being seen, I’ll attract like-minded people. I hope that what I say adds value to someone or makes someone feel less lonely.  I’ve realized that I enjoy writing more than I do talking. Hopefully,…